Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Giving IS receiving

My personal opinion is that too many South Africans have the wrong mindset about giving.

Organizations such as ours rely completely on the gifts we receive from the community. Whether it be financial aid, or in kind. I have often wondered why it is such a struggle to raise funds. In our case, we assist children with cancer and their families.One should think that this in itself would act as a catalyst for communities to support and protect their own future.

Yet,...there always seems to be a severe lack of funding. 

While in their hearts many might give with complete love and compassion, for many, the mind takes over and interferes with what is generally perceived as what is socially acceptable. This is stifling, not only the good that can be done if everyone gave what they can, but also prevents the givers from receiving.

My logic is as such. In every single belief system, there is much meaning attached around, in short, the phrase, "what goes around, comes around". I can add to that, "again, and again, and again".

A few examples then.

Karma is the law of "Cause and Effect" and is adapted by many cultures such as Buddhism, Jainism, Hinduism and Modern Paganism. This life is likened to a field in which our karma is the seed. We harvest exactly what we sow; no less, no more. The underlying principle is that karma is the law that brings back the results of actions to the person performing them.

"The concepts of reaping what you sow", from Galatians 6:7,or "Give, and it will be given to you... for the measure you give will be the measure you get back.", Luke 6.38, are well known Christian based beliefs.

This same concept of receiving what you give is also found in the Muslim belief. "Those who act kindly in this world will have kindness." Islam. Qur'an 39.10.

In Hinduism,  "He who gives liberally goes straight to the gods; on the high ridge of heaven he stands exalted"  Rig Veda 1.125.5

Judaism asks the question and the answer is found in Mishnah, Abot 4.1, "Who is honored? He who honors mankind."

Another example comes from Shinto. "Those who do not abandon mercy will not be abandoned by me",  Oracle of the Kami of Itsukushima.

Even Atheists, who believe in nothing at all, are more often than not quite philanthropic. 

I recon what you do or not give has to come from a place deep within you, not even your heart, but your soul. Because then it will not matter whether you give big or small. Big or small will not then be a thought that crosses your mind. It has to be a personal journey where you discover the riches of your own life, not based on what others display as riches. Then only will you rejoice in the blessings you GIVE rather than the ones you receive.

I believe firmly, it is more fulfilling to the soul to give what it can, than nothing at all. I hope that in some small way, my ramblings and thoughts make a difference to YOU today and reminds you of what you already knew. We are not alone in this world. We have a responsibility to each other. We are bound by unseen threads, and if these threads are pulled tenderly and with love, it will reverberate powerfully across the land in shows of compassion, care, and above all, love.

Well, that's my 5 cents worth, and I am proud to have given it.

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